Episodes

Friday Feb 28, 2025
Friday Feb 28, 2025
Welcome to Conscious Not Crazy, where I share insights from my journey as a parent and educator to explore the intriguing parallels between parenting and running a business. In this episode, titled "The Business of Parenting," I reflect on how skills like emotional intelligence, understanding behavior, and empathy are essential in both arenas. By establishing a strong foundation based on values, mission, and vision, we can communicate effectively and align with those we lead, whether it's our children, students, or employees. I share personal experiences and insights on how these principles have guided me through parenting challenges and beyond.
Listen in as I explore the importance of emotional intelligence in "Empowering Leadership and Setting Boundaries." By understanding our personal triggers and setting clear boundaries, we maintain control over our responses and foster an environment where mistakes are embraced as learning opportunities. Modeling desired behaviors and creating a supportive atmosphere helps both children and employees manage failure constructively, encouraging risk-taking and innovation. The conversation emphasizes the need for a strong foundation based on clear values, as actions often speak louder than words.
Join me in "Embracing Failure and Solution-Focused Leadership" as I discuss fostering a supportive environment in leadership at home and work. Reacting with anger or blame can drive individuals into a fear-based state that hinders problem-solving, so it's crucial to guide them in learning from mistakes. By allowing children and employees to experience consequences, we nurture emotional intelligence and problem-solving skills, essential for success in a changing world. Additionally, "Establishing Healthy Boundaries With Others" highlights the significance of setting boundaries in personal and professional relationships, managing interactions with kindness and directness, and embracing failure as a learning opportunity. Tune in for an engaging discussion on navigating life's challenges with clarity and purpose
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Thursday Dec 19, 2024
Thursday Dec 19, 2024
In this enlightening episode of "Conscious Not Crazy," Kori delves into the world of transformative parenting by focusing on self-awareness and the cultivation of core values. Learn how understanding your child's behavior through the iceberg analogy can help reveal the emotions underlying their actions. Kori offers practical strategies to help parents maintain composure and model positive responses, teaching children healthy coping skills in the process.
Discover the importance of feelings as indicators rather than dictators, allowing for thoughtful responses to developmental challenges. This episode encourages parents to embrace authenticity, recognize personal triggers, and set boundaries to foster a nurturing environment where growth takes precedence over perfection.
Join Kori as she emphasizes the significance of becoming the best version of yourself—not just for your children, but for all your relationships. Through open discussions about values and embracing failure as a learning opportunity, guide your children to thrive in a digital age. By focusing on self-awareness and positive transformation, both you and your children can achieve more fulfilling lives.
Key Takeaways:
Understand your child's behavior with the iceberg analogy.
Maintain composure and model positive responses for healthy coping skills.
Embrace authenticity and self-awareness to improve parenting and relationships.
Engage in open discussions about family values.
Encourage resilience in a social media-driven world by accepting imperfection and learning from failure.
Tune in for an inspiring journey towards personal growth and Conscious Not Crazy parenting. If you enjoy this episode, please like, follow, and share with others who might benefit from these insights
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Wednesday Nov 06, 2024
Wednesday Nov 06, 2024
Join us on "Conscious, Not Crazy" as we explore the transformative journey of our special guest, Cicone Prince, an international speaker, author, and coach. Cicone shares his personal development story, beginning with a pivotal breakup in college that led him to introspectively question his own behaviors and reactions. This self-reflection became a lifelong journey, guiding him to discover his true calling. Originally the founder of a 3D animation company, Cicone experienced an epiphany during a business pitch competition, realizing that his passion lay in inspiring others rather than selling products. His book, "Are You Climbing the Wrong Mountain," encapsulates his mission to help individuals recognize and pursue their true purpose.
Our conversation extends to the profound impact of childhood experiences on adult life, focusing on the importance of inner child healing for personal growth. We discuss the need to address root causes of behavior patterns and the role of self-awareness in parenting and leadership. By understanding and modeling healthy behaviors, we can foster positive development in ourselves and our children. Drawing from business insights and personal experiences, we underscore the significance of healing and the potential need for professional support to navigate this journey of self-discovery and transformation.
Listen in as we also tackle the challenges of parenting in the digital age, discussing how technology influences childhood and the balance between protection online and offline. We highlight the importance of setting boundaries with technology to maintain focus and personal growth. By sharing stories and reflections, we encourage authenticity in relationships, emphasizing the need to take actionable steps towards healing and personal growth. Our discussion is filled with insights on overcoming obstacles, learning from adversity, and inspiring others through living a healed and authentic life. To further explore Cicone's resources and learn about his speaking engagements you will find his website listed below.
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Monday Oct 14, 2024
Monday Oct 14, 2024
Welcome to another engaging session of Conscious Not Crazy! Today, I am thrilled to have two exceptional guests, Brice Dawson and Skylor Alexander, who are making waves in the construction industry in Kansas City. Skylor, owner of Stag Homes, shares his unique journey from growing up in a blue-collar family to becoming a general contractor. He emphasizes the vital role of early exposure to trades and the challenges of finding reliable workers. Skylor praises Brice for his consistency and leadership. Brice, on the other hand, recounts his upbringing in a family home-building business, highlighting how this background gave him unique insights into construction and customer relations.
Listen in as we delve into diverse career paths, especially within education and the construction industry. The discussion underscores the crucial importance of vocational training and hands-on experiences as viable alternatives to traditional college education. Through personal anecdotes, we highlight how success in trades can be achieved without accumulating significant student debt. We also discuss the need for educational systems to focus on emotional intelligence and practical skills, illustrated by real-world learning experiences provided through collaborations with schools. This emphasis on vocational training will leave you feeling informed and enlightened about the diverse career paths available.
Finally, we touch on the innovative approaches of unique school systems, from preschool to elementary levels, that foster autonomy and confidence in children. The conversation also covers personal career journeys, showing how diverse skills and experiences contribute to professional growth and adaptability. By sharing stories of career evolution from teaching and sales to brewing and construction, we stress the importance of lifelong learning and adaptability in today's rapidly changing world, motivating us to prepare for the future. Join us for a compelling discussion on how real-world education programs and diverse career paths can shape the future for the younger generation.
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Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
What does it mean to truly transform after a life-altering event? Join us as we sit down with Efrat Shokef, a social psychologist, author, and mother of three, who sheds light on her profound journey following a near-death experience from a car crash. Efrat shares intimate details of her recovery, the reshaping of her identity, and the deep love and connection she felt during her near-death experience. Her story is one of resilience and offers an insightful look into the profound impact such experiences can have on life and motherhood.
Explore the depths of healing childhood trauma and overcoming limiting beliefs in this powerful episode. We dive into how unresolved trauma shapes behaviors and limits potential, particularly for parents. Efrat discusses various methodologies for personal growth, such as conscious brain rewiring and deep shamanic soul healing. We emphasize the importance of breaking generational cycles and modeling authenticity for our children, enriched with personal anecdotes and Efrat's ongoing journey of growth and alignment.
Finally, we tackle the challenges of parenting through personal growth, highlighting the balance between nurturing children's potential and living in the moment. The conversation navigates the power of visualization, trusting the process, and maintaining positive intent towards others. Through compelling stories, including a moving tale about a motivational speaker's life-saving words, we illustrate the impact of positive energy and the unseen struggles of others. Tune in for valuable insights on healing communication, embracing failures as learning opportunities, and showing up for our children in moments of alignment, all detailed in Efrat's inspiring book, "The Promise We Made."
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Wednesday Sep 18, 2024
Wednesday Sep 18, 2024
Ever wondered how a casual chat in a sauna could transform into a beacon of hope and humor for Christian mothers everywhere? Join me on this episode of Conscious Not Crazy as I sit down with the dynamic duo, Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine, the voices behind the "Unlikely Housewives" podcast. Their journey from private conversations to creating a public platform during the COVID-19 pandemic is nothing short of inspiring. Guided by faith and a strong foundation, they have successfully balanced their planning styles to bring valuable insights on topics ranging from financial education to pro-life activism.
Discover the profound impact of faith on parenting in our heartfelt discussion with Tori and Tracy. We explore how starting with faith, prayer, and biblical principles can guide families through the challenges of anxiety, schoolwork, and friendships. Emphasizing the importance of modeling desired behaviors, grace, and compassion, we reflect on the necessity for parents to take an active role in discipling their children. Consistency in values and accountability within the family can make a significant difference, even in our imperfect world.
Finally, we navigate the journey of finding the right educational environment amidst state transitions and school system changes. With personal anecdotes about non-traditional settings like Bambini Creativi and Freedom Learning Academy, we highlight the benefits of small class sizes and playful learning. Balancing societal fears and granting children independence to explore is crucial, and Tori and Tracy offer their insights on trusting God's calling and taking risks. Tune in to be uplifted and inspired by the mission-driven "Unlikely Housewives.
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"Unlikely Housewives" Podcast

Tuesday Aug 27, 2024
Tuesday Aug 27, 2024
Can a simple act of kindness truly change a life? This episode of Conscious, Not Crazy welcomes Chuck Doyle, better known as Coffee Cup Chuck, to share his incredible journey from a troubled youth in a rough neighborhood to becoming an international speaker, author, and advocate for personal transformation. Chuck's story is a testament to resilience and personal growth, shedding light on the pivotal moments that changed his outlook on life. Tune in as Chuck discusses the unexpected mentorship he found while in prison and the significant influences that shaped his path to becoming the best version of himself.
Experience the profound impact of spreading positivity through small gestures. Chuck recounts a life-altering encounter where his simple, positive message saved a stranger from suicide. This heartwarming story underscores the ripple effect of kindness and the importance of being a source of light in someone's darkest moments. As Coffee Cup Chuck, he has taken it upon himself to spread uplifting messages, reminding us about the power of positivity and the importance of modeling good behavior for our children.
Curating positive content and maintaining an optimistic mindset are essential elements of a fulfilling life. Chuck and I explore strategies for feeding your mind with positivity, both online and offline, and the benefits of prioritizing meaningful activities. Drawing from influential books like "The Go-Giver" and "Think and Grow Rich," we discuss the true wealth found in the value we provide to others and the state of our minds. We also delve into effective parenting strategies, emphasizing authentic connections, open communication, and supportive environments to help guide our children through their own journeys. This episode promises to inspire and empower you to foster positivity and personal growth in every aspect of your life
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Chuck Doyle "Coffee Cup Chuck" Motivational Influencer
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
The Go Giver by Bob Burg and John David Mann

Monday Aug 26, 2024
Monday Aug 26, 2024
How can understanding the hidden layers of your child's behavior transform your approach to parenting? Episode after episode, "Conscious Not Crazy" keeps bringing you insightful strategies to elevate your parenting game. This week, we are building a Conscious Not Crazy parenting toolbox that goes beyond mere survival tactics. It's all about progress over perfection—taking small, meaningful steps to be a better parent today than you were yesterday. We delve into why understanding the root causes behind your child's actions, setting firm yet empathetic boundaries, and not taking outbursts to heart can fundamentally shift your parenting dynamics.
Ever find yourself losing your cool faster than you'd like? We dive deep into how maintaining composure can change the game. Discover how to manage your natural fight-or-flight response, giving yourself the space to respond thoughtfully and not impulsively. We break down the iceberg theory to reveal how recognizing deeper issues can lead to more effective parenting. It's all about modeling the behavior you wish to see, practicing empathy, and embracing gratitude—even when you're at your wit's end.
This episode also covers empowering your kids through conversational coaching. Learn how to encourage your children to solve their own problems and understand the consequences of their actions by asking questions rather than giving directives. Personal stories bring these concepts to life, illustrating how creating a supportive environment can foster intrinsic motivation and emotional regulation. Transform your relationship with your children and equip them with the tools they need to navigate life's challenges. Tune in for practical advice that not only helps in parenting but enriches all your relationships
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Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Have you ever wondered why your best efforts to control your child's behavior often backfire? Join us in this eye-opening episode of "Conscious Not Crazy," where we unravel the transformative power of setting boundaries in parenting. I'm your host, Kori, and today we dispel the myth that parents can control their children’s actions—a misconception that leads to endless power struggles. Instead, we focus on mastering self-control and composure to foster a cooperative and respectful home environment. With insights drawn from the impactful book "Boundaries" by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, we discuss how clear limits can reduce stress and clarify expectations, making life easier for both parents and children.
We navigate through the essential skill of maintaining composure, especially in challenging moments with toddlers and teenagers. You'll learn why boundaries are not just for kids, but a vital life skill beneficial in all relationships, including those at work and with significant others. Through relatable scenarios, we illustrate how setting clear expectations and consequences helps children understand the impact of their choices. Whether it’s managing changing plans with friends or ensuring chores are completed, our practical examples underscore the importance of empathy and coaching, helping kids learn from mistakes without feeling judged.
Finally, tune in for effective strategies to encourage toddlers to clean up their toys joyfully and consistently. Discover how using timers and maintaining a positive attitude can turn cleanup into a fun, engaging game, fostering both compliance and a sense of responsibility. We also explore the broader implications of consistent boundaries, which contribute to a child’s sense of safety and accountability. Through personal anecdotes and actionable tips, this episode is packed with advice for parents striving for progress rather than perfection, and the value of daily practice in rewiring our behaviors. Don’t miss out on this enriching conversation that will help you model resilience and continuous growth for your children
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"Boundaries" by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

Tuesday May 21, 2024
Tuesday May 21, 2024
How do we preserve the innocence of childhood and ensure our kids' well-being through the trials of divorce? Embark on a heartfelt journey with me, Kori, as we tackle the complexities of co-parenting post-separation. Drawing from my personal narrative of resilience, having lived through my parents' divorces and now navigating my own, this episode promises to equip you with compassionate strategies for fostering stability and emotional security for your little ones amidst life's upheavals.
Together, we'll explore the delicate steps of cultivating a co-parenting relationship rooted in patience and respect. I'll share stories that shine a light on the importance of creating a safe space for our children's emotions and the commitment required to maintain discipline and unity. We'll also delve into boundary-setting with your co-parent to craft a manipulative-free haven for your children, ensuring they remain buffered from the storms of adult conflicts.
In the complexities of introducing new partners and managing the logistical ballet of post-divorce life, your children's emotional sanctuary is paramount. I'll share practical co-parenting tips that honor their need for consistency, hold space for their evolving relationships with both parents, and keep their well-being as the guiding star. Join me in this candid reflection on nurturing our children's resilience and extending grace to ourselves as we chart the waters of parenting after divorce
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The Four Agreements

Don't give up BETTER for PERFECT!
As a parent, consultant, speaker, and podcaster, I am dedicated to sharing my experiences and insights to empower fellow parents and educators.
Together, we'll delve into the inticacies of childhood behavior, unraveling its underlying motivations, and equipping you with invaluable tools to navigate through the challenges without succumbing to exhausting power struggles.